Notes
1.	This version is intended for Bottoms & Switches with their Bottom hat on
2.	? Don't understand this item.
3.	No under Willingness is a hard limit, subject to any notes
4.	Flogging is defined as mild to moderate (& occasionally severe) with multi-tailed implements
5.	Whipping is defined as severe usually with a single-tail or very wicked implement
6.	Novices may change the Experience column heading to: Blank = No 
7.	For # put a number from 1 (barely tolerate) to 10 (love it!) for how much you like the activity.

	Experience
Blank = ?	Willingness
Blank = ?	#	Notes & Nuances
Including any medical concerns	
Anal penetration (properly prepared) - cock 					
Anal penetration - dildo/butt plug/fingers 					
Anal plug (public, under clothes) 					
Animal play (sex with real animals)					
Arm & leg sleeves (arm/leg binders) 					
Aromas 					
Auctioned for charity 					
Anilingus/rimming (oral/anal play)					
Beating anywhere on body (soft/moderate)					
Beating anywhere on body (hard)					
Blindfolds					
Being serviced sexually by other subs					
Being bitten					
Blood play (rose canes, vampire gloves, etc.)					
Boot worship/polishing					
Bondage – usually rope, other types too (light)					
Bondage (heavy)					
Bondage (multi-day)					
Bondage (public, under clothing)					
Bondage (Intricate Japanese rope) 					
Branding (cell popping method)					
Branding (violet wand)					
Branding (heated metal method)					
Breast/chest bondage					
Breast – impact play (mild to moderate)					
Breath play (choking, hanging, bagging, etc.)							
Cages (locked inside of)					
Caning					
Catheterisation					
Cattle prod (electrical toy)					
Cells/Closets (locked inside of)					
Chains					
Chamber-pot use					
Chastity belts					
Chauffeuring					
Clamps (clothespins, etc.)					
Cock worship					
Cock & Ball Torture (Male bottoms)					
Collars (worn in private)					
Collars (worn in public)					
Competitions (with other Subs)					
Corsets (wearing casually)					
Corsets (trained waist reduction)					
Crawling					
Cuffs (leather)					
Cuffs (metal)					
Cunninglingus (giving oral pleasure to cunts) 					
Cunninglingus (receiving oral pleasure)					
Cupping (Chinese medicine – plastic/glass)					
Cutting (scalpel – temporary modification)					
Dilation (usually of ass via dildos)					
Dildos					
Double penetration (vagina & ass)					
Enemas (for cleansing)					
Enemas (retention/punishment)					
“Enforced” chastity					
Erotic dance (for audience or private)					
Exercise (“Forced”/required)					
Exhibitionism (friends)					
Exhibitionism (strangers)					
Eye contact restrictions					
Face slapping					
Fantasy abandonment – pretending to leave you alone					
Fear play (based on things you fear)					
Fellatio (receiving oral pleasuring of cock)					
Fellatio (giving oral pleasuring of cock)					
Fisting (anal)					
Fisting (vaginal)					
Flame/Fire play					
Flogging – any areas to avoid?					
Following orders					
Food Play – syrup, whipping cream, etc.					
Foot worship					
“Forced” dressing					
“Forced” eating					
“Forced” homosexuality					
“Forced” heterosexuality					
“Forced” lactation					
“Forced” masturbation					
“Forced” nudity (private)					
“Forced” nudity (around others)					
“Forced” servitude					
“Forced” smoking					
Gags (cloth)					
Gags (inflatable)					
Gags (phallic)					
Gags (rubber)					
Gags (tape)					
Gags (mouth bit)					
Gas masks					
Genital play – mild/moderate sensations e.g. vibrators, dildos, soft, warm, sharp					
Genital torture (intense sensation)					
Given away to another Dom (temp)					
Given away to another Dom (perm)					
Gun play					
Hair pulling					
Hand jobs (giving)					
Hand jobs (receiving)					
Harems (serving with other subs)					
Harnessing (leather)					
Harnessing (rope)					
Having food chosen for you					
Having clothing chosen for you					
High heel wearing					
High heel worship					
Hoods – cloth, latex or leather					
Housework (doing)					
Humiliation (private)					
Humiliation (public)					
Hypnotism					
Ice cubes					
Immobilization – restrained or told to keep still					
Including others in scenes (assistants, observers, co-topping, multiple bottoms)					
Injections (saline in breasts)					
Injections (saline in labia)					
Injections (saline in ball sack - males)					
Kneeling					
Knife play					
Latex – liquid brushed onto body					
Latex – body suits & hoods					
Leather clothing					
Leather restraints					
Lectures for misbehaviour					
Licking (non-sexual – various parts of body)					
Lingerie (wearing)					
Lubricants – flavoured or clit stimulating					
Manacles & Irons					
Manicures (giving)					
Massage (giving)					
Massage (receiving)					
Mummification (e.g. duct tape, pallet wrap)					
Name change (for scene)					
Name change (legal, permanent)					
Nipple play/"torture", e.g. clamps					
Nipple weights					
Orgasm denial					
Orgasm control					
Outdoor bondage/play scenes					
Outdoor sex					
Paddles					
Pain (severe)					
Pain (moderate)					
Pain (mild)					
Persona training (taking on a given personality for a scene, e.g. brat)					
Personality modification (Real Life)					
Phone sex (serving Dom)					
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends)					
Phone sex (commercial provider)					
Photography – to record a scene					
Photography – planned erotic photo shoots 					
Piercing (temp. syringe needles)					
Piercing (temp. acupuncture needles)					
Piercing (permanent) – where?					
Plastic surgery					
Prostitution (public pretence)					
Prostitution (actual)					
Public exposure – doing things many people would be shocked about or disapprove of					
Punching – closed fist on meaty areas					
Riding crops					
Riding the "horse" (crotch torture)					
Rituals					
Restrictive rules on behaviour					
Scarification					
Scratching - getting					
Scratching - giving					
Sensation play (hot, cold, rough, smooth, etc.)					
Sensory deprivation					
Serving as a submissive fulfilling requests 					
Serving as art					
Serving as ashtray					
Serving as furniture					
Serving as a maid					
Serving as toilet (urine)					
Serving as toilet (feces)					
Serving as waitress/waiter/hostess					
Serving other doms (supervised)					
Serving other doms (unsupervised)					
Sexual deprivation (short term)					
Sexual deprivation (long term)					
Shaving (body hair)					
Shaving (head hair)					
Showers, golden (urine over body)					
Showers, brown (scat over body)					
Skinny-dipping					
Sleep deprivation					
Sleep sacks					
Slutty clothing (private)					
Slutty clothing (public)					
Spandex clothing					
Spanking - hand					
Spanking – implements, e.g. hairbrush					
Speech restrictions (when, what)					
Speculums (Anal)					
Speculums (vaginal)					
Spitting – being spit upon (humiliation play)					
Spreader bars					
Standing in corner					
Stapling – medical or hardware stapler					
Stocks – wooden device holding neck, hands					
Straight jackets					
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on)					
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by)					
Strap-on-dildos (wearing/using)					
Straps - usually leather impact toys					
Stripping – erotic undressing					
Suspension – rope & other devices (upright)					
Suspension (inverted)					
Suspension (horizontal – face up)					
Suspension (horizontal – face down)					
Supplying new partners for Dom					
Suturing					
Swallowing feces					
Swallowing semen					
Swallowing urine					
Swapping (with one other couple)					
Swinging (multiple couples)					
Tampon Training (in ass)					
Tattooing					
Teasing					
TENS Unit (electrical toy)					
Thumb cuffs (metal)					
Tickling					
Triple penetration					
Urethral Sounds (metal rods)					
Uniforms					
Vacuum bed					
Vaginal dildo					
Verbal humiliation – what words turn you on?					
Vibrators anywhere on body					
Violet Wand (electrical toy)					
Voyeurism (watching others)					
Voyeurism (your Dom w/others)					
Video (watching others)					
Video (recordings of you)					
Water torture					
Wax - Hot (e.g. candles)					
Wax – Paraffin for manicures/pedicures					
Waxing (hair removal, e.g. Brazilians)					
Wearing symbolic jewellery					
Weight gain (“Forced”)					
Weight loss (“Forced”)					
Whipping – usually with a single tail whip. Any areas to avoid?					
Wrestling / “take down” scenes					

Role Play
	Experience
Blank = ?	Willingness
Blank = ?	#	Notes & Nuances	
Parent/Child (Age play) 					
Parent/Infant (in diapers – infantilism)					
Owner/Pet (puppy, kitten, etc.)					
Pony play					
Teacher/Student					
Officer/Suspect					
Interrogator/Suspect					
Priest/Confessor					
Sergeant/Recruit					
Prison Guard/Prisoner					
Customer/Prostitute					
Doctor/Patient					
Kidnapper/Victim					
Rapist/Victim					
Pirate/Passenger					
Sultan/Harem girl					
Punishment Scene – what situations or characters do you like best?					
Initiation Rites – describe scenarios					
Others you fantasize about					

					

					

Other things you’d like to try or need to avoid.